QA2, QA4, QA5, QA6, and QA7

Professional conduct, boundaries, and Code of Conduct

Professional conduct protects children, supports respectful relationships, strengthens trust, and helps maintain a child safe culture where expectations are clear.

Professional conduct

How we work matters

Professional conduct is the way staff behave, communicate, make decisions, respond to concerns, use authority, manage boundaries, and represent NERPSA.

In early childhood education and care, conduct is closely connected to child safety. Children rely on adults to use power responsibly, communicate respectfully, maintain safe boundaries, and act in children’s best interests.

Respect

Use respectful behaviour

Treat children, families, colleagues, students, volunteers, visitors, contractors, and community members with dignity, courtesy, fairness, and respect.

Boundaries

Keep roles clear

Use clear professional boundaries so interactions with children, families, colleagues, and others remain safe, transparent, and appropriate.

Accountability

Raise concerns

Report concerns, breaches, unsafe conduct, or behaviour that is inconsistent with the Code of Conduct through the correct NERPSA pathway.

Code of Conduct and child safe expectations

Code of Conduct

The Code of Conduct sets shared expectations

NERPSA’s Code of Conduct helps staff understand the standard of behaviour expected when working with children, families, colleagues, students, volunteers, visitors, contractors, and the broader community.

It supports child safety by making expectations visible. It also helps staff recognise when behaviour is respectful, professional, transparent, and safe — and when behaviour needs to be questioned, reported, or stopped.

Child safety accountability

Behaviour inconsistent with NERPSA’s child safe commitment

Behaviour that is inconsistent with NERPSA’s child safe commitment, Code of Conduct, policies, or legal obligations will be responded to promptly and proportionately.

Depending on the nature and seriousness of the matter, this may include risk management, review or investigation, external notification, referral to police or relevant authorities, disciplinary action, legal action, limits on attendance at the service, or termination of engagement or employment.

Conduct guide

Expected and concerning conduct

Open this guide for examples of conduct that supports child safety and conduct that should be questioned, raised, or reported.

Open NERPSA Code of Conduct

Code of Conduct guide

Conduct that supports child safety

  • Treating children with dignity, rights, respect, and fairness.
  • Listening to children and valuing their views, ideas, and concerns.
  • Using calm, respectful, and developmentally appropriate communication.
  • Maintaining clear professional boundaries with children and families.
  • Supporting inclusion, cultural safety, and equitable participation.
  • Following NERPSA policies, procedures, and lawful directions.
  • Protecting privacy and confidentiality.
  • Raising risks, concerns, disclosures, or breaches promptly.

Conduct that is not appropriate

  • Shaming, humiliating, intimidating, threatening, frightening, isolating, or degrading a child.
  • Rough handling, unsafe physical contact, inappropriate discipline, or unreasonable correction.
  • Secretive relationships, private communication, or social media contact outside NERPSA pathways.
  • Using personal devices to take, store, send, or discuss child images, records, or information.
  • Creating situations to be alone with a child without a clear professional reason.
  • Providing gifts, favours, special treatment, or private arrangements that blur professional boundaries.
  • Ignoring disclosures, concerns, suspected harm, family violence, or concerning adult behaviour.
  • Breaching privacy, confidentiality, policy, procedure, or child safe expectations.

Professional behaviour in practice

With children

Use warm, respectful, developmentally appropriate interactions. Do not shame, threaten, isolate, intimidate, ridicule, use rough handling, or create fear.

With families

Communicate professionally, protect privacy, use service pathways, and maintain clear boundaries between personal and professional relationships.

With colleagues

Work respectfully, share information needed for safe practice, use clear handovers, support constructive feedback, and raise concerns appropriately.

With students, volunteers, and visitors

Model professional expectations, support safe participation, and speak up if conduct, supervision, or boundaries are unclear or unsafe.

Professional boundaries

Clear roles

Boundaries protect children and staff

Professional boundaries help staff use their role safely and fairly. They reduce confusion, protect privacy, prevent favouritism, and help children and families know what to expect from NERPSA staff.

Boundary concerns can include personal messaging, social media contact, private arrangements, sharing too much personal information, special treatment, secrecy, gifts, favours, unnecessary physical contact, or communication outside approved service pathways.

If a boundary feels unclear, pause and ask

Staff should seek guidance before a situation becomes unsafe, misunderstood, secretive, unfair, or inconsistent with NERPSA expectations.

Private information

Protect confidentiality

Staff must protect children’s, families’, and colleagues’ personal information. Information should only be shared where there is a legitimate service, safety, legal, or organisational reason.

Physical contact

Keep contact appropriate

Physical contact with children must be respectful, nurturing, developmentally suitable, child safe, and connected to the child’s safety, wellbeing, learning, or care needs.

Boundary risks to notice early

Private communication

Personal messaging, social media contact, private phone contact, or communication outside approved NERPSA pathways can create safety, privacy, and boundary risks.

Gifts, favours, and special treatment

Gifts, favours, private arrangements, or special treatment can create confusion, favouritism, secrecy, unfairness, or grooming concerns.

Physical interaction

Physical contact must be appropriate to the child’s needs, age, communication, comfort, dignity, safety, and professional context.

Confidentiality

Private information about children, families, colleagues, incidents, concerns, or service matters must not be discussed casually or shared without authority.

Fitness for work

Fitness for work

Staff must be fit to work safely with children

Staff must not educate or care for children while affected by alcohol, drugs, medication, illness, fatigue, or any substance or condition that may impair their ability to supervise, respond, communicate, make decisions, or perform their role safely.

Smoking, vaping, alcohol, and illicit drugs must not be used on the service premises while children are being educated and cared for.

Staff must follow NERPSA procedures if medication, illness, fatigue, or a health issue may affect their ability to safely perform their role.

Speak up early

If you are not fit to safely perform your role

Tell the appropriate leader, follow lawful and reasonable directions, and do not continue work if your judgement, supervision, communication, or safety may be impaired.

If you are concerned about someone’s conduct

Conduct concerns

If something does not feel right, speak up

Staff should speak up if they see, hear, or become aware of conduct that may affect a child’s safety, dignity, rights, privacy, or wellbeing, or that is inconsistent with NERPSA’s Code of Conduct.

Concerns may include:

  • humiliating, frightening, threatening, isolating, shaming, degrading, or intimidating a child;
  • rough handling, unsafe physical contact, inappropriate discipline, or unreasonable correction;
  • using a personal device to take, store, send, or discuss children’s images, videos, records, or information;
  • secretive, private, or inappropriate communication with a child or family;
  • creating situations to be alone with a child without a clear professional reason;
  • sharing confidential information without authority;
  • ignoring concerns, disclosures, suspected harm, abuse, family violence, or unsafe adult behaviour;
  • bullying, harassment, discrimination, racism, victimisation, or disrespectful workplace behaviour;
  • any conduct that may need to be managed through NERPSA’s child safety, complaints, performance, disciplinary, or reportable conduct pathways.

Professional judgement

Think before acting

Use the “Would I be comfortable explaining this?” test

If a decision, message, conversation, photo, action, favour, relationship, or interaction would be difficult to explain to a child’s family, a colleague, the service leader, NERPSA, or a regulator, pause and seek guidance before continuing.

Professional judgement is about being reflective, transparent, child-focused, and willing to ask before something becomes unsafe, unclear, or inconsistent with NERPSA expectations.

NERPSA policies connected to this section

Policy connection

Policies that support professional conduct

Key connected policies include Code of Conduct, Child Safe Environment and Wellbeing, Interactions with Children, Privacy and Confidentiality, Compliments and Complaints, Supervision of Children, Safe Use of Digital Technologies and Online Environments, Staffing, and Participation of Volunteers and Students.

These policies support safe decisions about conduct, communication, boundaries, privacy, supervision, child safety, complaints, students, volunteers, visitors, digital technology, and professional accountability.

Useful resources

NERPSA Code of Conduct

Current NERPSA Code of Conduct Policy.

Open policy

NERPSA Interactions with Children

Current NERPSA policy for respectful and safe interactions with children.

Open policy

NERPSA Child Safe Environment

Current NERPSA child safe environment and wellbeing policy.

Open policy

NERPSA policies

Current NERPSA service policies and procedures.

Open policies
Required induction activity

Reflect on professional conduct

Think of one behaviour that supports child safety, trust, respectful relationships, and professional boundaries. Then think of one behaviour that would be inconsistent with the Code of Conduct.

Make sure you know how to raise a concern if you observed conduct that was not appropriate.

Optional extension activities

  • Consider a situation involving personal messaging, social media contact, gifts, physical contact, private arrangements, confidentiality, favouritism, rough handling, disrespectful language, or concerning adult behaviour. Think about what would make the situation unsafe or unclear, and who you would speak with before it escalated.
  • Use the “would I be comfortable explaining this?” test. Choose a hypothetical action, message, photo, favour, relationship, physical interaction, or decision. Think about whether you could clearly explain it to a child’s family, your service leader, NERPSA, or a regulator.

Professional conduct protects trust

Clear conduct, safe boundaries, respectful communication, confidentiality, transparency, and early reporting help protect children, families, staff, and NERPSA’s child safe culture.